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How To Keep Yourself Safe

If you’re being abused…Get Help!

  • You have the right to be treated with respect, be heard, say “NO”, come and go as you please, have privacy and space of your own, and maintain a separate identity.
  • Millions of women are dealing with violence. Although it is usually hidden, this kind of abuse is very common and affects people from all walks of life.
  • No one has the right to physically or mentally harm you. That kind of behavior is against the law!


How to Protect Yourself at Home

  • Learn where to get help; memorize emergency phone numbers.
  • Plan an escape route out of your home; teach it to your children.
  • Pack a bag with important things you’d need if you had to leave quickly. Put it in a safe place or give it to a friend or relative you trust.
  • Include cash, car keys, and other important things, such as: court papers, passport or birth certificates, medical records and medicines, immigration papers.


In an Emergency

  • Stay away from the kitchen. The abuser can find weapons –
    like knives – there.
  • Stay away from the bathroom, closets, or other small spaces where the abuser can trap you.
  • Go to a room with a door or window to escape.
  • Go to a room with a phone to call for help; lock the abuser outside if you can.
  • Call 911 (or local emergency number) right away for help; get the dispatcher’s name.
  • Seek medical help if you are hurt.
  • Take pictures of bruises or injuries.
  • Call a domestic violence program or shelter in your area.

If you are being hurt by a partner, relative, or friend, get immediate help by contacting one of the area agencies below.

*24 hour hotline

Legal/Crisis Info: Lasting Solutions: (314) 534-4200 x1244
Legal Advocates for Abused Women: 1-800-527-1460
Shelters: Comtrea-Jefferson County: (636) 931-2700*
Fortress Outreach: (314) 381-4422
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St. Martha's Hall: (314) 533-1313
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Weinman Shelter: (314) 423-1117
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Women's Center: (636) 946-6854
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Women's Safe House: (314) 772-4535
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Alive: (314) 993-2777
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Counseling: Women's Support and Community Services: (314) 646-7500*
The Crisis Line: (314) 531-2003
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St. Louis Sexual Assault Center: (314) 726-6665
Life Source Consultants: (314) 524-0686
Center for Trauma Recovery: (314) 516-6737
Victims Services: Victim Service Council-County: (314) 615-4872
Victim Services-City: (314) 622-4373
St. Charles Victim Assistance Program: (636) 949-7370

 

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